We all get excited when we date someone new, but sometimes our past can rear its ugly head at the most inconvenient times. Even if we don’t mean to, we might find ourselves displaying our past hurts inappropriately. This can end up being way more than our date bargained for, because as we all know, a date with a new guy is no place for our past dealings and baggage.
Hence, the popular dating rule:
Don’t discuss your past heartache’s with your new love interest; especially not on the FIRST DATE!
Ladies, we tend to bring up our past relationship turmoil in the hope that our emotional scars would motivate “Mr. Potential” to avoid repeating the past mistakes of our former men. But sharing these dating “war stories” may be the very thing to either bore him or scare him away. Keep the baggage to yourself, until the direction of the relationship warrants that you both unpack.